If you ever took one of those personality quizzes on BuzzFeed or Cosmo back in the day, you might enjoy this one. Like those personality tests of yore, it could change the way you think about yourself or at least satisfy a passing curiosity. Shall we begin?

Are you:

  1. Comfortable being alone
  2. Considerate to a fault
  3. Gentle and unobtrusive

Do you:

  1. Prefer to make your own decisions
  2. Be your own boss
  3. Feel lonely in a group

These questions are actually not clickbait. They’re part of a longer assessment about the need for solitude versus the yearning for companionship.